{"id":118,"date":"2026-01-18T21:21:51","date_gmt":"2026-01-19T02:21:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/pablojacome.com\/?p=118"},"modified":"2026-01-19T00:59:32","modified_gmt":"2026-01-19T05:59:32","slug":"diferencia-entre-querer-y-amar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pablojacome.com\/index.php\/2026\/01\/18\/diferencia-entre-querer-y-amar\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00a0Diferencia entre querer y amar"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>La distinci\u00f3n entre querer y amar es una cuesti\u00f3n clave en el \u00e1mbito de las relaciones interpersonales, tanto desde una perspectiva filos\u00f3fica como psicol\u00f3gica. Aunque ambas emociones implican afecto y deseo, la profundidad y el tipo de conexi\u00f3n que generan son considerablemente diferentes. Querer, en muchos casos, est\u00e1 m\u00e1s relacionado con el deseo de poseer o satisfacer necesidades emocionales de forma m\u00e1s ego\u00edsta. Seg\u00fan la psicolog\u00eda, cuando se \u00abquiere\u00bb a alguien, se experimenta un tipo de apego donde el bienestar propio depende en gran medida de la otra persona (Riso, 2018). Este querer puede ser m\u00e1s superficial, basado en lo que el otro puede aportar o brindar en un momento determinado.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"687\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/pablojacome.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/image-1-687x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-172\" srcset=\"https:\/\/pablojacome.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/image-1-687x1024.jpg 687w, https:\/\/pablojacome.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/image-1-201x300.jpg 201w, https:\/\/pablojacome.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/image-1-768x1144.jpg 768w, https:\/\/pablojacome.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/image-1.jpg 784w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 687px) 100vw, 687px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Foto generada: Amar desde lo m\u00e1s genuino. <\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Por otro lado, amar implica un nivel de aceptaci\u00f3n m\u00e1s profundo, que va m\u00e1s all\u00e1 de los beneficios inmediatos que la otra persona puede ofrecer. El amor genuino, como se\u00f1alan autores como Erich Fromm (1956), est\u00e1 marcado por el respeto, la comprensi\u00f3n y la capacidad de dar sin esperar nada a cambio. Amar requiere de una apertura hacia la otra persona tal y como es, sin la intenci\u00f3n de cambiarla, lo que significa un grado m\u00e1s alto de madurez emocional. Adem\u00e1s, el amor est\u00e1 asociado con el crecimiento conjunto, la reciprocidad y el compromiso a largo plazo. En definitiva, mientras que el querer est\u00e1 m\u00e1s vinculado a una satisfacci\u00f3n de deseos inmediatos, el amor se construye sobre una base de respeto, confianza y empat\u00eda, lo que lo hace m\u00e1s duradero y s\u00f3lido.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Referencias<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Riso, W. (2018). Manual para no morir de amor: diez principios de supervivencia afectiva.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Fromm, E. (1956). El arte de amar. Editorial Siglo XXI.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>La distinci\u00f3n entre querer y amar es una cuesti\u00f3n clave en el \u00e1mbito de las relaciones interpersonales, tanto desde una perspectiva filos\u00f3fica como psicol\u00f3gica. Aunque ambas emociones implican afecto y deseo, la profundidad y el tipo de conexi\u00f3n que generan son considerablemente diferentes. Querer, en muchos casos, est\u00e1 m\u00e1s relacionado con el deseo de poseer [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":170,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[16,45,44],"class_list":["post-118","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-amor","tag-amar","tag-bienestar","tag-madurez"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v26.7 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>\u00a0Diferencia entre querer y amar - Psicolog\u00eda<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/pablojacome.com\/index.php\/2026\/01\/18\/diferencia-entre-querer-y-amar\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"es_ES\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"\u00a0Diferencia entre querer y amar - Psicolog\u00eda\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"La distinci\u00f3n entre querer y amar es una cuesti\u00f3n clave en el \u00e1mbito de las relaciones interpersonales, tanto desde una perspectiva filos\u00f3fica como psicol\u00f3gica. 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